Your True Image

They say, You are lucky when you find someone who loves you.

But I feel you truly lucky if they love you more than you can love them.

And more than love there is respect, patience and care for one another.

The depth of love truly shows when things are not going as planned, when there is ups and downs in the relationship, thats truly when they show where your relationship stands .

They would show their true image of how they feel about you , it won't matter how many promises they gave to spend their life with you.

With time and experience i have accepted one harsh reality , if someone disrespect you when they are angry, they may apologize later but at the heat hurt with sharp words that pierce your heart into tiniest pieces. They are not lying they are telling that truth they otherwise wouldn't be able to speak out.

You shouldn't forgive and totally not tolerated if they abuse you or get physical, its no point to be loved at one point and pushed in ground the very minute things dont go as planned.

Once you forgive them,  they know its okay and can be repeated cause it comes along with repetition and an apology alongside. 

You give them the power to suppress you , to hurt you and overpower with their words with their actions. That's not love then , its a power to control your partner , to feel superior .