A Girl's View about Marriage..

Marriage is always a beautiful dream for a girl, throughout her life she dreams about her life after her marriage obviously she would be leaving back her whole life she has accustom, her whole bunch of memories, her lovely relations with her family, she's going to miss those freedom that she had at her fathers house.

It's so easy for a guy to marry, it's simply adding another member in his family but for a women it's leaving back her family and walking ahead to a new family. Without knowing much about the person his nature, his past she holds his hands. Its all about a fate of the girl to get a good husband. No matter you had a dis- functioned family and your first half life not so good went  but the other part is something that matters more as this part would be staying with your last breath. But as nothing but your destiny is responsible for she decides your whole future.

My sister is married, it's almost been 2 years and amongst these years she might have barely come eight to ten times at home. It's so hard to accept that our family is lessen and her emptiness would be there throughout the life. We have spend and shared all our happy and sad days together, we have gathered all memories in each and every corner. There in this bed we fought with pillows, there in the corner she fell down while chasing me. There in kitchen showcase there is a cup which we both used to fight to use. 

There are so many words that we used as a code word for not letting mom know what we speaking. So many secrets that we share with each others that our parents are not even aware. Our first crush, all those proposals that we get, confusion about some decisions that we cant share with our parents. So many things like that are there that we both share and now with this marriage we are far away.

Now, we hardly time to speak about our daily on going, forget about our secrets. It's so strange that i still take you are my secret sharer and you already got another sister who started sharing with you. She might be so lucky, huh, before she had one brother and now she also got sister-in-law. But she also have to lose this gift one fine day. 

Actually i feel this rules are so unjust, we leave our family, we have to adjust to new surrounding, and we have to loose our parents shelter where we spend our whole life. 

So unfair.. Still we all wait for this day.. 

Marriage..!!