Another phase of life...

Life is so much interesting... i would have never realized it.. unless i took this decision of moving out of my comfort zone.. and shifting to a new city.. where no one knew me who would pamper me with care.. new areas that i would have never ever seen... with new people along with their difficulties..

Sometimes life gives us so many chances to explore this beautiful world but we ourselves are busy in fighting with our small little problems.. Today i have nothing permanent, nor this few people whom i speak. nor the room where i am staying.. nor the area that i am walking through..

But all that i know is, this time i have to face each and everything all by myself... It seems to be hard when we imagine it..  but then the other part of the coin is.. we have nothing to lose.. nor identity.. nor society.. Its like we have got another life.. where we can put forth any image we wish to show to people.. which we might have not been able to show the other part of our life..

Another chance to protect ourselves with the same problems that we had faced earlier.. and avoid the same mistakes that might have ruined our life.. Really no one can ever think what turn their life might take.. and where can you land the very next moment...

For the fact, today i have not much things.. nor protection from family.. nor my old friends.. but the best part is.. i ain't much bothered about what i have lost.. but i am excited only with a thought of whats the next page of my book gonna show me..

I feel.. i just keep turning all the pages of my life.. as quickly as possible.. and enjoy all that i can.. without losing a chance.. But then that's not how life is.. it has its own plan that we need to work with.. and we have to work and walk with the same pace.. what the time shows us..

All that we have to do is.. Wait and Watch...

Earlier i used to get scared of the next moment.. with a fear of losing something.. never knew what was that thing that i was afraid.. but indeed the fear was always within me.. But that's truly not now.. i know i ain't having anything really to lose..

That's true.. life is really interesting... its on us.. how we see it..

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Whose Mr. Perfect...

Searching for Mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches. It is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists. Why do you seek perfection when you are not perfect yourself? Why do you place such an insurmountable obstacle infront of you? Why have you made your life and relationships difficult because of such an irrational demand? Unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is an impossibility, you have to choose a human being, like the rest of us.

 Any woman you see enjoying a great relationship worked on that relationship. There are no short cuts.Perfectionism may work well in a novel, movie or television show, but in real life it will frustrate you, and lead you to massive pain. Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place. You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy.

 Not having lots of money is not a good reason to give up a great relationship. A guy may have lots of money but be abusive and insensitive to your feelings.If this guy, who doesn’t have lots of money, makes you feel on top of the world emotionally, then you should think about how to work out the financial angle in your relationship. Think and pray through. But don’t throw it away. Not just yet.

Is he too short, too fat, too tall, too smart, too dark, too light, too hairy, too muscular, too skinny, bald? etc.These are things you can work around. If you don’t want to get married to a short man who will do anything to make you happy, would you rather he was tall and mean to you? A man’s height or physique will not make you happy. Stop delaying your marital destiny by desiring the wrong things.

 The media sells us the picture of the perfect man with well formed, a perfect body, a perfect job, an IQ of 180, perfect teeth, a nice apartment, a great car,etc. If you want one of those men, you will have to find them in that magazine and no where else. The fact is that if you want a good man, you must be willing to work on the relationship. You should be vary suspicious of any man who looks too perfect. In fact, I will advise that you step back and watch him closely.

Satisfactions comes from helping others...

“ Satisfaction comes from others”, means that if you help someone in need or trouble a good feeling will come to you. It doesn’t matter what you do, either helping someone is a grave situation, or just helping your friend with homework. This quotation, or  so called quotation, is true to inform and show that satisfaction and good feeling can come from helping others.

   
The quotation “satisfaction comes from helping others” tells, or tries to show that winning, and being rude, or mean to others by teasing them, or bullying is not such a good thing. This shows that doing the examples above, don’t always bring satisfaction, or a good feeling.  Instead the statement encourages people to do good deeds by helping others in difficult times, or juts doing some volunteer work for the less fortunate.

    Overall I agree with the quotation “satisfaction comes from helping others”, and that helping others is a better, and more effective way of bring satisfaction to yourself. Instead of teasing, or making fun of someone, or thing, I see this quote as a way of getting people to think about how helping others is a great thing, and that  it benefits many people, including the person helping someone in need. In the end both the giver and the receiver will feel satisfaction. The one receiving the help will become happy and pleased that someone cares, and looks out for him, and the giver will become satisfied and happy inside his heart for helping out someone from his own will.

Your Life does change with one decision..choosing a right company..

A company is always better than being alone- i am a better person to use this line, cause i know how difficult it is to be alone. Let it be good or bad days, but all that you have is silence all corner, no one to speak or share nor fight; just you and your loneliness.

For me being with someone was more important that knowing exactly with whom. Here's when  made the biggest mistake- I met with all kind of people. Some who were themselves like me- needed a company, some who behaved very sweet and kind- but later showed their real colors. Some who were really different to me.

Actually all were different, but the only similarity was that i wanted to have a company. Well i never realized that choosing a proper company does matters. There were few people who loved gossiping and back bitching, whereas some who were addicted with alcohols and cigarettes. Some were business oriented, whereas some were just for fame.

Today i realize i hardly had a very few people who actually were worth to be called friends. What is a friend anyways- whose with you in happiness and also in sorrows. Well strange but very few have stood by be in troubles. And less than counting numbers who took initiatives to change me; changing me nor according to them but changing my bad habits and making me a better person.

Well, i had a problem i couldn't maintain a long term relation- for counting there might be handful of people yet in contact with me, perhaps, its really a sad part. I am easy to get with someone but handling part was always a problematic.

That person who accept me the way i am, and even after showing rejections still standing by, a person who don't want to be by me- just for some benefit; but mean for everything he/she says. That person who would feel to give up everything- just for a smile on your face. A person who don't care about the world but you. He/ She who would laugh with your joke and cry watching your tear..

Is a real company you must search for...( Hard to find, but would be forever... by your side..)
Others would be there and would also pass away with time. So choose a right decision, as your life really depends on your one decision. Its obviously better than repenting ahead in life.