Independence.. Being independent..
Seems to be such a wonderful feeling, where you are without any boundaries drawn by someone. Where you are the king of your life and every decision is onto you. I guess every other person desired to be independent.
Let it be a teen who want to be independent from his parents, or a working man who wants to independent from the rules and regulation from his boss and seniors. Or a passionate person who wants to follow his own dreams, but finds walls every step.
Well even i desired to be independent, where I would be recognized and my name is been known. I never appreciated when i was known by my father, nor would like if i am known ahead due to my life partner. Whatever i take decision always must be purely my thoughts and ideas. No one should keep nagging and hold me tight.
Never realized but i used to run away always whenever someone tried to put inside their palm, i used to feel i am been tied inside all those emotional bond and would have to be now this way always. And thus kept running here and there, as much far as possible.
Today, i atleast got freedom from being a family, today i stay all alone far away from my family and all my loved ones, but you know what, i am again stuck into other connections, thats the persons whom i am living with. Not that i am without independency, i am having more than i have ever expected.
But today's date i have something that i am carrying with me, thats more heavy than that bond that i kept running, i.e responsibility. Responsibility not only of myself, but my whole surrounding, responsibility of my room mates, my new good friends.
That's when i realized that although we keep running away from being dependent on others, that's always better as you are without those tension that a person have when he or she is independent, where that person keep taking all headache over to himself, and how ever he do well, but when he do something wrong, he is responsible and needs to take all credit, whether he likes it or not.
Hence i came to know, that independency always comes along with equal or more responsibility.
Seems to be such a wonderful feeling, where you are without any boundaries drawn by someone. Where you are the king of your life and every decision is onto you. I guess every other person desired to be independent.
Let it be a teen who want to be independent from his parents, or a working man who wants to independent from the rules and regulation from his boss and seniors. Or a passionate person who wants to follow his own dreams, but finds walls every step.
Well even i desired to be independent, where I would be recognized and my name is been known. I never appreciated when i was known by my father, nor would like if i am known ahead due to my life partner. Whatever i take decision always must be purely my thoughts and ideas. No one should keep nagging and hold me tight.
Never realized but i used to run away always whenever someone tried to put inside their palm, i used to feel i am been tied inside all those emotional bond and would have to be now this way always. And thus kept running here and there, as much far as possible.
Today, i atleast got freedom from being a family, today i stay all alone far away from my family and all my loved ones, but you know what, i am again stuck into other connections, thats the persons whom i am living with. Not that i am without independency, i am having more than i have ever expected.
But today's date i have something that i am carrying with me, thats more heavy than that bond that i kept running, i.e responsibility. Responsibility not only of myself, but my whole surrounding, responsibility of my room mates, my new good friends.
That's when i realized that although we keep running away from being dependent on others, that's always better as you are without those tension that a person have when he or she is independent, where that person keep taking all headache over to himself, and how ever he do well, but when he do something wrong, he is responsible and needs to take all credit, whether he likes it or not.
Hence i came to know, that independency always comes along with equal or more responsibility.
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