What you sow- you shall surely reap.. very true..

 

 I am back to the place where i was some time ago, what should i choose.. Why does this question keeps knocking at my door- where i have to choose between two of my closest options. Till date i used the third option-take both of the options together, in that sense no body will get hurt. But i forget that i am taking two options that would turn to be problematic in future, and for now would just keep pricking me all the time.

 I realize it now, that i should have made my choice there and then itself it wouldn't have been as difficult as it has become now. Its rightly said that, ' Its easy to remove the plant from the root, but next to impossible to remove the tree.'

 When those things that can be problematic in future rings your bell, its better to close the door forever. Or else it would not only keep ringing the bell forever but also break the door and come inside without you wanting that.

 I have always wanted everything that is fascinating and its later in the end i realize that it was just an appearance from outside. Never really believe in those glitters around you, its just to attract you and trap you.
But whats the use of regretting now, its already a mess, i have let them break the door of my life turning all the glitters into thorns.

I never would blame anyone for this, no never, cause its always my decision that makes me to face everything- sometimes it be the best and also worst. But then its always been me who take the final decision. So i really don't have complaint list for someone.

Well i have really nothing to conclude as i myself am in search of one. But hope it ends well and no one gets broken up (well that's not possible where expectations are present) still- its better to take a stand than to take it back in your luggage for future.

As its better you realize and accept the fact, whether you leave it for future- One fine day, you have to take a stand.

A girl's th0ught.................♥

Marriage is an important phase of livefor everyone
but for a girl its the most amazing decision of her life.
A girls dreams and wishes for his life partner.....
I want a hubby who would hold my hand in lines at the mall ..or while crossing roads..so that I feel
protected ♥
I want someone who would sing to me at random moments...:)
Someone who wud respect my maturity and love my
innocence too.
Someone who would bet with me on kisses..and let me win...:)
Someone who would let me fulfill my responsibilities
towards my mum dad and would love my family like
his own ♥
I want a guy who will accept me with love and make me feel a part of his family.
Someone who I could share my fears, my laughs, my
smile and my tears.
Someone who would not get angry over my mistakes instead scold me like my mother n then help
me to learn doing that thing again.
But mostly, someone who would b loyal to me and will always be the reason for my smile ♥
And I promise to such a guy...I would always prove
his trust right....I would be his family....and I would
love and respect his parents like my own mom dad....:)

Why Girl's Cry :

► A Girl Wont Cry Easily, Except in Front of The Person;
Who She Love The Most, ...She Becomes Weak..! :(

► A Girl Wont Cry Easily, Only When She Love You The Most,
She Put Down Her Ego..!

► If a Girl Cries Bcoz of You, Hold Her Hands Firmly,
She is The one Who Would Stay With You For The Rest of Your Life..♥

► If a Girl Cries Bcoz of You, Don't Give Her Up..!
Maybe Bcoz of Your Decision, You Ruin Her Life..! :(

► She Cries Not Because She is Weak, She Cries Not Bcoz She Wanna Sympathy or Pity,
She Cries Because; Crying Silently is No Longer Possible..! :(
The Pain, Hurt N Agony Have Become Too Big; A Burden To Be Kept Inside..! :'(

► If a Girl Cries Her Heart Out To You, And All Because of You;
Its Time To Look Back on What You Have Done,
Only You Will Know The Answer To it..♥

"A touching love story that 'll make u cry"

10th Grade:-

As I sat there in English class,

I stared at the girl next to me.

She was my so called 'best friend'.

I stared at her long, silky hair,

and wished she was mine.

But she didn't notice me like that,

and I knew it.

After class,

she walked up to me and asked me for

the notes she had missed the day before.

I handed them to her.She said 'thanks'

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her, I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

11th grade:-

The phone rang. On the other end,

it was her. She was in tears,

mumbling on and on about how

her love had broke her heart.

She asked me to come over

because she didn't want to be alone, So I did.

As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her

soft eyes, wishing she was mine.

After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,

and three bags of chips,

she decided to go home.

She looked at me, said 'thanks'

and gave me a kiss

on the cheek..I want to tell her,

I want her to know that

I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.



Senior year:-

One fine day she walked to my locker.

"My date is sick" she said,

"hes not gonna go" well,

I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,

we made a promise that

if neither of us had dates,

we would go together just as 'best friends'.

So we did.

That night, after everything was over,

I was standing at her front door step.

I stared at her as She smiled at me

and stared at me with her crystal eyes.

Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Graduation:-

A day passed, then a week, then a month.

Before I could blink, it was graduation day.

I watched as her perfect body

floated like an angel

up on stage to get her diploma.

I wanted her to be mine-but

she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.

Before everyone went home,

she came to me in her smock and hat,

and cried as I hugged her.

Then she lifted her head from my shoulder

and said- 'you're my best friend,

thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Marriage:-

Now I sit in the pews of the church.

That girl is getting married now.

and drive off to her new life,

married to another man.

I wanted her to be mine,

but she didn't see me like that,

and I knew it.

But before she drove away,

she came to me and said 'you came !'.

She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Death:-

Years passed, I looked down at the coffin

of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.

At the service, they read a diary entry

she had wrote in her high school years.

This is what it read:

'I stare at him wishing he was mine,

but he doesn't notice me like that,

and I know it.

I want to tell him,

I want him to know that

I don't want to be just friends,

I love him but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

I wish he would tell me he loved me !

.........'I wish I did too...'

Real meaning of I Love You..

Now a days people are so casual in saying "I LOVE YOU" to their partners, that they have forgotten I LOVE YOU' s REAL meaning. Lets try to remind them what that means..!!

♥ "I love you" means that I accept you for the person that you are and that I do not wish to change you into someone else.♥


♥ It means that I do not expect perfection from you just as you do not expect it from me.♥

♥ It means that I will love you and stand by you, even through the worst of times.♥

♥ It means loving you when you're in a bad mood or too tired to do the things I want to do.♥

♥ It means loving you when you're down not just when you're fun to be with.♥

♥ It means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. ♥

♥ It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love enough not to let go. ♥

♥ It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping that you feel the same way for me..♥♥

26 Things That A Perfect Guy in LOVE Would Do for his love:

1. Know how to make you smile when you are down.

2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.

3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence.

4. Give you the remote control during the game.
 
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
 
6. Play with your hair.
 
7. His hands always find yours.
 
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
 
9. Messages u a lot.
 
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
 
11. Never run out of love.
 
12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.
 
13. Realize he’s being funny when he needs to be serious.
 
14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
 
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.
 
16. Smile a lot.
 
17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn’t normally like to do, just because he knows it means a lot to you.
 
18. Appreciate you.
 
19. Help others out.
 
20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.
 
21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each others company, even when his friends are watching.
 
22. Sing, even if he can’t.
 
23. Have a creative sense of humor.

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason.

26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs – just because he loves u that much to quit it. if he cant then help him in quitting by slowly reducing the amount he does usually.

The Seven Ages of Women

From infancy, little is expected of a girl
for the crown cannot fit a princess' head,
and a king's cloak about her must not swirl;
only Lord and Prince may fit her bed.

In childhood, what can a girl do?
(For she cannot plant seeds to bed?)
And so she may milk bleating ewe
and wait for courtly boy to wed.

In her aging, she cannot be single -
for what use comes of an old, lone hag?
So if she wants to stay and mingle,
she must do so from the performer's rag.

And when war comes, she will take stand,
for her hands may craft gun and cap,
and her blood the same of her male homeland -
but she may not fill the fallen soldier's gap.

By maternity, she's borne three,
all who earn their keep in suits,
but what she lacks, her gender's fee
compels her to her mother's roots.

Her skin once fair now turns to pale,
and now in age her work relented,
she sits in rest, the news how to hail,
that the corrupt society has repented.

And so she sits, a dying flame,
now free of history's spell.
The society that once ruled her a 'disdain'
now marking her truly equal.