Real meaning of I Love You..

Now a days people are so casual in saying "I LOVE YOU" to their partners, that they have forgotten I LOVE YOU' s REAL meaning. Lets try to remind them what that means..!!

♥ "I love you" means that I accept you for the person that you are and that I do not wish to change you into someone else.♥


♥ It means that I do not expect perfection from you just as you do not expect it from me.♥

♥ It means that I will love you and stand by you, even through the worst of times.♥

♥ It means loving you when you're in a bad mood or too tired to do the things I want to do.♥

♥ It means loving you when you're down not just when you're fun to be with.♥

♥ It means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. ♥

♥ It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love enough not to let go. ♥

♥ It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping that you feel the same way for me..♥♥

26 Things That A Perfect Guy in LOVE Would Do for his love:

1. Know how to make you smile when you are down.

2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.

3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence.

4. Give you the remote control during the game.
 
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
 
6. Play with your hair.
 
7. His hands always find yours.
 
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
 
9. Messages u a lot.
 
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
 
11. Never run out of love.
 
12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.
 
13. Realize he’s being funny when he needs to be serious.
 
14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
 
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.
 
16. Smile a lot.
 
17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn’t normally like to do, just because he knows it means a lot to you.
 
18. Appreciate you.
 
19. Help others out.
 
20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.
 
21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each others company, even when his friends are watching.
 
22. Sing, even if he can’t.
 
23. Have a creative sense of humor.

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason.

26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs – just because he loves u that much to quit it. if he cant then help him in quitting by slowly reducing the amount he does usually.

The Seven Ages of Women

From infancy, little is expected of a girl
for the crown cannot fit a princess' head,
and a king's cloak about her must not swirl;
only Lord and Prince may fit her bed.

In childhood, what can a girl do?
(For she cannot plant seeds to bed?)
And so she may milk bleating ewe
and wait for courtly boy to wed.

In her aging, she cannot be single -
for what use comes of an old, lone hag?
So if she wants to stay and mingle,
she must do so from the performer's rag.

And when war comes, she will take stand,
for her hands may craft gun and cap,
and her blood the same of her male homeland -
but she may not fill the fallen soldier's gap.

By maternity, she's borne three,
all who earn their keep in suits,
but what she lacks, her gender's fee
compels her to her mother's roots.

Her skin once fair now turns to pale,
and now in age her work relented,
she sits in rest, the news how to hail,
that the corrupt society has repented.

And so she sits, a dying flame,
now free of history's spell.
The society that once ruled her a 'disdain'
now marking her truly equal.

Confusion all over again...

Why is this word come in our life again and again,
is this pause a part of our routine?
You finally get out with a proper plan and then something comes in front of you,
giving you a feeling that something somewhere we are going wrong.
It's indeed good, that it help us to get out with that wrong path,
but how to find out..
Sometimes we get everything we were running for and then one fine day we just get out with this feeling of something thats incomplete..
A query of what's really going on and why are we doing so much and for what..
Someone had likely said, you might get all the worldly things but until you have a true care and support..
When you turn back you find yourself not alone.. that feeling you wont ever get..
Well i am not a person who repent for things i do, cause i feel everything happens do happens for a reason..
But whom to blame for things that happens intentionally which might have not been planned for fate..
Then can i avoid from this thought that pricks me when i am all alone.. gathering moments from my past..
Well its so confusing at times.. and so am i now..

“There will always be dreams grander or humbler than your own, but there will never be a dream exactly like your own..for you are unique and more wondrous than you know.”
~Linda Staten

There are times when we focus so much on reaching out, helping and doing what’s best for others that we completely forget about the person who needs us most.

If you do nothing else today, remember to take extra special care of that person.

That person is you.

Love yourself from the deepest part of your being—completely, unconditionally, faithfully. Listen to your heart’s desires.  Relax your mind and body, allowing all the good of the Universe to flow effortlessly through you.

Express your creativity fearlessly with or without outside understanding.  Delight in your differences, your uniqueness—everything that makes you you.

Accept that you are special, one of a kind, and perfect as you are. Remember that you are good enough to believe in the best, experience the best, and live the best life possible.

The cruel me..

My life seem to be so out of order, just like sand on my palm, slowly falling away from me.. the more i hold- the more its going out of my hand. I am totally helpless even after knowing whats happening.. All my life i kept weeping for what i don't have and for what i never got, but when today i stand in front of mirror and try to look at myself, i just see a person who have been hurting people only for her own comforts. When she needed a support she hold the person's hand but when she felt she can handle all by herself she has left the hand and moved forward.
Yes, i know that's very bad but i am still helpless, cause that's something that even after knowing its out of my control.. As i never realize, weeping for what i didn't have.. i also lost what i have been losing..
Now when i turned back, i just realized what beautiful moments i had and everytime i got closed with those moments i kept running away, have really no clue why and for what.. Might be.. i am like a serpent.. who kill the person after getting close..
I have given people happiness.. made them feel that they are most special person in the whole world.. and one fine day.. i just leave them all by themselves.. Might be its because of the fear that i would loose the happy moments.. or might be i am not ready to take the happy moments turning into sad ones..
This post wont make much sense, cause again i have done the same thing and even this time i have no clue why and what will i get doing it.. Sometimes i feel its better not to let anyone get in part in your life.. No one would come in your life.. so obviously no one would  get closer.. and give me a fear of losing everything.. which in the end, would force me to do some stupidity and move out of the persons life..
Today i might be walking firmly and climbing the steps of success that i had planned on my head, but within me i have been left with nothing.. i miss that innocent girl who knew nothing more giving love to all.. that person who never said no to anyone and cared with all her heart..
I really have no idea whose this girl in front of the mirror, might be another worldly person.. there was a time when i was trying to know the world to fit in it.. as everytime i used to misfit because of my nature.. but today i guess i am very well fitting with the world.. They have really turned me into the cruel me..

Change is you and within you..

Who has the power of deciding whats true or false..

Who has the power anyways.

Is it just the ones with great post and pocket full of money..

Or the politicians and the so called prominent people..

Out of every gap, there has to be a need of flare for a new thought..

A new change.. that brings forth with loads of challenges and negative vibes..

We people are anyways used to the word compromise.. adjustment..

We keep pointing at people who are at the post with power..

But.. is it actually the whole truth..

Every neglect have resulted in a big problem,

but then it was just a mistake and needs to be forgiven.. Is that all..

 Every another day, we see some new riot or quarrel about some new issue..

People have been fighting and even dying wondering that its now atleast a first step..

A flare that would raise out to a fire..

That fire.. that would bring back all the people together.. 

And out of the problems.. But still.. the very next span.. another loop hole..

What then..??

Whats the whole leadership to start about..

Wont it be right to say, that those people who keep taunting at the system and the corrupt people...

Were right and have got the same result what they expected..

My whole issue is not about whose really right or wrong..

Nor have any such prominent role in this society, that my words would be much mattered..

But i know one thing..

Its on personal point.. everyone must atleast stand for their own rights..

Its very easy to say.. and the more difficult..

And from the beginning  i have always been asked to suppress and adjust with the situation..

And when and where i had stood for a change.. there had been always an argument..

No matter i won or lose.. today i really have no guilt that i didn't stood for the right..

Even today.. i  have this faith in me that..

when and where i would get another chance..

i would be still there standing for the right.. no matter its against.. my loved ones.. my neighbours.. my education system.. or the society.. for the whole..

This is one wish of my... have been always there..

I really want to do something good for my country..

I am the present generation with new thoughts and vibes..

I am the face of the young generation..

And if people come together from I to WE..

Things would really change alot..

But no matter, anyone's there or no..

In my life.. atleast i urge to do something.. something really big..

That would bring some change in the society..

Still unknown with the factors.. but i would still keep following my intuition..

Cause omens are always right.. and always guides our path..

Well waiting eagerly for that period..