Gemini woman
Gemini woman – 22 May – 21 June
Introduction
The
Gemini woman is beautiful. Don’t misconstrue this as a biased opinion.
It is more than an opinion… it’s an observation. Even if she is not
beautiful in the conventional sort of way there is an inner beauty in
her, which gets reflected on her face as you get to know her better.
And
her face… or faces! Is she really two faced? I don’t think so. This
woman has a multi-faceted personality and knows the art of adapting
herself to any given situation. If this trait can be labeled as
‘two-faced’, then so be it!
A woman of intellect and
boundless charm, the Gemini always leaves a trail of peppiness and fun
behind her. Given her penchant for multi-tasking, she is usually found
to be over-committed… running from pillar to post to achieve her
targets.
Having a Gemini female as a friend or a
girlfriend is an added advantage as with her around life is full of
stimulating conversation and tinkling laughter.
How can you identify a Gemini woman?
If
you ever come across a woman who has a store of intelligent questions
about the most diversified subjects and at the same time is an amazing
listener… you can be sure she is a Gemini. At any social event, you will
find her moving from one group of friends to another with unmatched
grace and a warm innocent smile on her face.
While most
attributes discussed in this chapter will apply to all kinds of Gemini
women, there are two categories amongst them and some behavioural
differences obviously exist between the two. I would divide Gemini women
into 70% passive and 30% aggressive.
What are the finer traits of her personality?
When
people who have considerable knowledge of zodiac signs encounter Gemini
women, they usually have a comment or two to make on their dual
personality or the famous (or infamous) Janus-faced characteristic.
Through my personal observations and interaction with Gemini friends and
workmates, I would give 80% of Gemini women a clean chit on this label.
Yes, what I am saying is that 80% of Gemini women are not two faced… it is just a myth!
What does she look for in her life partner?
The
first thing any Gemini woman will look for in a man is intelligence.
She cannot abide stupidity or silliness of any kind. Secondly, she will
look deeper for humility but with the right amount of pride. She is
quite capable of getting involved with ‘her type of men’, who are
artistic, creative, thinkers, philosophers and writers.
I
have discerned that Gemini women eventually settle with passive men.
Since you already know by now that she is full of variety and excellent
at multi-tasking, it’s also important to know that she is very
passionate and can get crazy and kinky (again depending on her mood and
age). While she is capable of doing all this, she does expect her man to
be equally passionate, full of variety and surprises to keep her
passion going.
Are there more attributes to her persona?
Oh
yes! She has many facets to her personality. You will find a Gemini
woman restless and cranky only if she has unfinished business, otherwise
she is quite composed. You may also find her confused and indecisive at
times, but mostly she is quite clear about what she wants.
A
Gemini woman is more sensitive than sentimental, unless it concerns her
immediate family or a loved one. But under certain odd situations you
will find her being attached to small things like a gift from an old
friend.
She is a woman full of feminine charms.
Although Gemini women portray a strong exterior, they are all femininity
inside. They would always show that they don’t break down easily and
usually they don’t. But they are not bereft of feminine weaknesses. Also
as and when situation demands they can use their femininity to their
advantage.
What is her attitude towards commitment in a relationship?
A
Gemini woman is typically an independent thinker and has a mind of her
own. Once again being curious by nature and having got answers to most
questions early in life, she is quite aware of what she wants from an
early age… sometimes as early as 16 or 17. so if you are planning on
dating or wooing a Gemini girl, you have a daunting task ahead.
But
here’s help. I know the secret to a Gemini woman’s heart and I’m
letting it out right here… to win the irresistible heart of a Gemini
female let your guard down and be absolutely unpretentious. She hates
pretense of any kind and is smart enough to see through any games you
try to play with her. So just be yourself and show your love and she
will be ready to be wooed. But also remember she is a woman, albeit an
intelligent one. And just like any other woman would like her man to be a
man… not a spineless junkie.
How is a Gemini woman at work/career?
I
have observed 6 out of every 10 Gemini women to be part of the media
industry be it TV or print. Her need to be in this industry very likely
comes from her inherent curiosity to know things. Being in professions
like news reporting, content writing and research and development,
satiates her quest for knowledge and allows her to constantly be in a
creative environ.
It would be needless to add here that
her ability to prioritize her work and multi task makes her a very
competitive worker. She is also not shy of hard work and will put in as
much effort as is required to achieve her goals.
ADDED on 29th August 2013:
How is she on thefollowing aspects?
Appearance:
Don’t let her dressing style fool you. A Gemini woman is driven by her
mood swings and will dress up accordingly. One amusing observation I
have made is that she is one of the three women who love to use men’s
cologne if given a choice…the other two being Scorpio and Capricorn. And
believe me this is the only touch of masculinity you will find in her!
They love keeping pace with new trends in fashion and accessories. They also love gadgets.
Ambition:
Extremely ambitious, this lady is raring to go. But what actually
drives a Gemini woman is the search for inner satisfaction rather than
money. That doesn’t mean money is not important as she aspires for the
best things in life, but to her satisfaction in what she is doing is of
utmost important.
A Gemini woman is exceedingly
committed towards her work but is likely to get saturated if she remains
in an industry or profession for too long. Since she pursues
satisfaction, she can move on to another terrain to get the kind of
growth she wants. Her need to innovate and be creative can drive her to
either affiliated industry or to a totally contrasting field of work.
Her
greatest strength lies in the 100 per cent effort she puts in to adapt
herself to her new work profile, developing a sense of comfort or
discomfort in the very early stages.
Compatibility quotient
Given
her zest for life and quest for knowledge, dating a Gemini woman is
fun. But is that enough to sustain a long-term relationship? It is quite
a task to manage an over-committed Gemini and break through the myth of
her ‘dual’ personality. Unless you are equipped with a good deal of
common sense, getting along with the vivacious Gemini can be a hard
bargain.
Gemini woman and…
Aries man: 10/10.
Wow! And double wow! This relationship sizzles! The Gemini girl is the
ideal match for an Arien guy. An Arien’s love for conversation is the
answer to the Gemini curiosity, while the Gemini spirit is the answer to
the Arien passion. Of course, the Aries man will have to balance his
arrogance and ego around her and she will have to swallow her pride to
put-up with his super blunt nature.
Taurus man: 8/10.
With the right kind of adjustments, this combination can work out well.
Once the Taurean learns to give the Gemini woman enough space, he will
have a fun-loving and practical partner by his side and for life. In
return, his steady nature would be a good anchor to her liveliness. He
can be a dependable partner and can provide the emotional security she
secretly yearns for.
Gemini man: 7/10.
Since both share a love for good stimulating conversations, they might
start-off on a pleasant note, but then they will have to make an effort
to sustain the other’s curiosity. Once the course of conversation is
run, they might grow weary of each other. This relationship requires
more than ‘lip service’ to work in its favour.
Cancer man: 5/10.
The free Gemini spirit might not be able to offer the Cancer man the
love and security he needs, neither will she be able to give him
undivided attention. His serious demeanour might put-off the vivacious
Gemini mind. If this relationship is to work successfully, a lot of
adjustments are required at both ends.
Leo man: 8/10.
The sociable nature of both these individuals can be a key to the
success of this relationship. With her around, their relation will never
lack romance or passion and with him in charge, it will be full of good
humour and generosity. The only hitch here being that they can end-up
offending each other’s egos.
Virgo man: 8/10.
With a bit of fine tuning, this relationship can go a long way. For
starters, both have an understanding nature and an identical emotional
quotient. The Virgo guy however will have to bridle his critical
attitude, while the Gemini girl will have to keep her tactless tongue
under control.
Libra man: 9/10.
Another great combination! Both are sociable and party-lovers. There
would be enough passion and romance in this relationship to keep the two
going. The Libran wit and the Gemini liveliness would only add to the
fervour. The only issue that could crop up is that they both love their
independence and space.If they are in opposite zones and unable to
connect, then it could mean trouble.
Scorpio man: 5/10.
What might start off on a promising note is likely to meet with major
roadblocks. The Scorpio man might get smitten by the Gemini passion and
she by his persuasive charm, but in the long run he won’t be able to put
up with her inconsistent nature. She will find it difficult to cope
with his demanding and dominating nature, not to mention his possessive
attitude.
Sagittarius man: 7/10: Both
are on the same wavelength intellectually, but their emotions tend to be
out of sync. Her flirtatiousness can make him feel insecure, while he
is too undemonstrative to suit her taste. But if both are in love these
differences can be overcome with some amount of hard work and this
relationship could actually work.
Capricorn man: 5/10:
This one can swing either way! If they both learn to appreciate each
other’s good qualities, this relationship might work. Otherwise the
Gemini’s modern outlook will not go down well with the conservative
Capricorn man.
Aquarius man: 8/10:
Since both share common traits like non-conformist behaviour, love for
adventure and spontaneity, this relationship is likely to work in the
long run. There would be understanding in both and each seeks change and
variety in life.
Pisces man: 5/10:
Not a very happening combination! The Gemini girl is way too pragmatic
to suit the lifestyle of the dreamy Piscean. It is also a balancing act
between her blunt tongue and his sensitive heart. This relationship
calls for a lot of compromises.
Gemini women Celebrities/Personalities:
Angelina Jolie
Naomi Campbell
Nicole Kidman
Brooke Shields
Shilpa Shetty
Sonam kapoor