A girl's th0ught.................♥

Marriage is an important phase of livefor everyone
but for a girl its the most amazing decision of her life.
A girls dreams and wishes for his life partner.....
I want a hubby who would hold my hand in lines at the mall ..or while crossing roads..so that I feel
protected ♥
I want someone who would sing to me at random moments...:)
Someone who wud respect my maturity and love my
innocence too.
Someone who would bet with me on kisses..and let me win...:)
Someone who would let me fulfill my responsibilities
towards my mum dad and would love my family like
his own ♥
I want a guy who will accept me with love and make me feel a part of his family.
Someone who I could share my fears, my laughs, my
smile and my tears.
Someone who would not get angry over my mistakes instead scold me like my mother n then help
me to learn doing that thing again.
But mostly, someone who would b loyal to me and will always be the reason for my smile ♥
And I promise to such a guy...I would always prove
his trust right....I would be his family....and I would
love and respect his parents like my own mom dad....:)

Why Girl's Cry :

► A Girl Wont Cry Easily, Except in Front of The Person;
Who She Love The Most, ...She Becomes Weak..! :(

► A Girl Wont Cry Easily, Only When She Love You The Most,
She Put Down Her Ego..!

► If a Girl Cries Bcoz of You, Hold Her Hands Firmly,
She is The one Who Would Stay With You For The Rest of Your Life..♥

► If a Girl Cries Bcoz of You, Don't Give Her Up..!
Maybe Bcoz of Your Decision, You Ruin Her Life..! :(

► She Cries Not Because She is Weak, She Cries Not Bcoz She Wanna Sympathy or Pity,
She Cries Because; Crying Silently is No Longer Possible..! :(
The Pain, Hurt N Agony Have Become Too Big; A Burden To Be Kept Inside..! :'(

► If a Girl Cries Her Heart Out To You, And All Because of You;
Its Time To Look Back on What You Have Done,
Only You Will Know The Answer To it..♥

"A touching love story that 'll make u cry"

10th Grade:-

As I sat there in English class,

I stared at the girl next to me.

She was my so called 'best friend'.

I stared at her long, silky hair,

and wished she was mine.

But she didn't notice me like that,

and I knew it.

After class,

she walked up to me and asked me for

the notes she had missed the day before.

I handed them to her.She said 'thanks'

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her, I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

11th grade:-

The phone rang. On the other end,

it was her. She was in tears,

mumbling on and on about how

her love had broke her heart.

She asked me to come over

because she didn't want to be alone, So I did.

As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her

soft eyes, wishing she was mine.

After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,

and three bags of chips,

she decided to go home.

She looked at me, said 'thanks'

and gave me a kiss

on the cheek..I want to tell her,

I want her to know that

I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.



Senior year:-

One fine day she walked to my locker.

"My date is sick" she said,

"hes not gonna go" well,

I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,

we made a promise that

if neither of us had dates,

we would go together just as 'best friends'.

So we did.

That night, after everything was over,

I was standing at her front door step.

I stared at her as She smiled at me

and stared at me with her crystal eyes.

Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Graduation:-

A day passed, then a week, then a month.

Before I could blink, it was graduation day.

I watched as her perfect body

floated like an angel

up on stage to get her diploma.

I wanted her to be mine-but

she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.

Before everyone went home,

she came to me in her smock and hat,

and cried as I hugged her.

Then she lifted her head from my shoulder

and said- 'you're my best friend,

thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Marriage:-

Now I sit in the pews of the church.

That girl is getting married now.

and drive off to her new life,

married to another man.

I wanted her to be mine,

but she didn't see me like that,

and I knew it.

But before she drove away,

she came to me and said 'you came !'.

She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Death:-

Years passed, I looked down at the coffin

of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.

At the service, they read a diary entry

she had wrote in her high school years.

This is what it read:

'I stare at him wishing he was mine,

but he doesn't notice me like that,

and I know it.

I want to tell him,

I want him to know that

I don't want to be just friends,

I love him but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

I wish he would tell me he loved me !

.........'I wish I did too...'

Real meaning of I Love You..

Now a days people are so casual in saying "I LOVE YOU" to their partners, that they have forgotten I LOVE YOU' s REAL meaning. Lets try to remind them what that means..!!

♥ "I love you" means that I accept you for the person that you are and that I do not wish to change you into someone else.♥


♥ It means that I do not expect perfection from you just as you do not expect it from me.♥

♥ It means that I will love you and stand by you, even through the worst of times.♥

♥ It means loving you when you're in a bad mood or too tired to do the things I want to do.♥

♥ It means loving you when you're down not just when you're fun to be with.♥

♥ It means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. ♥

♥ It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love enough not to let go. ♥

♥ It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping that you feel the same way for me..♥♥

26 Things That A Perfect Guy in LOVE Would Do for his love:

1. Know how to make you smile when you are down.

2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.

3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence.

4. Give you the remote control during the game.
 
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
 
6. Play with your hair.
 
7. His hands always find yours.
 
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
 
9. Messages u a lot.
 
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
 
11. Never run out of love.
 
12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.
 
13. Realize he’s being funny when he needs to be serious.
 
14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
 
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.
 
16. Smile a lot.
 
17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn’t normally like to do, just because he knows it means a lot to you.
 
18. Appreciate you.
 
19. Help others out.
 
20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.
 
21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each others company, even when his friends are watching.
 
22. Sing, even if he can’t.
 
23. Have a creative sense of humor.

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason.

26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs – just because he loves u that much to quit it. if he cant then help him in quitting by slowly reducing the amount he does usually.

The Seven Ages of Women

From infancy, little is expected of a girl
for the crown cannot fit a princess' head,
and a king's cloak about her must not swirl;
only Lord and Prince may fit her bed.

In childhood, what can a girl do?
(For she cannot plant seeds to bed?)
And so she may milk bleating ewe
and wait for courtly boy to wed.

In her aging, she cannot be single -
for what use comes of an old, lone hag?
So if she wants to stay and mingle,
she must do so from the performer's rag.

And when war comes, she will take stand,
for her hands may craft gun and cap,
and her blood the same of her male homeland -
but she may not fill the fallen soldier's gap.

By maternity, she's borne three,
all who earn their keep in suits,
but what she lacks, her gender's fee
compels her to her mother's roots.

Her skin once fair now turns to pale,
and now in age her work relented,
she sits in rest, the news how to hail,
that the corrupt society has repented.

And so she sits, a dying flame,
now free of history's spell.
The society that once ruled her a 'disdain'
now marking her truly equal.

Confusion all over again...

Why is this word come in our life again and again,
is this pause a part of our routine?
You finally get out with a proper plan and then something comes in front of you,
giving you a feeling that something somewhere we are going wrong.
It's indeed good, that it help us to get out with that wrong path,
but how to find out..
Sometimes we get everything we were running for and then one fine day we just get out with this feeling of something thats incomplete..
A query of what's really going on and why are we doing so much and for what..
Someone had likely said, you might get all the worldly things but until you have a true care and support..
When you turn back you find yourself not alone.. that feeling you wont ever get..
Well i am not a person who repent for things i do, cause i feel everything happens do happens for a reason..
But whom to blame for things that happens intentionally which might have not been planned for fate..
Then can i avoid from this thought that pricks me when i am all alone.. gathering moments from my past..
Well its so confusing at times.. and so am i now..

“There will always be dreams grander or humbler than your own, but there will never be a dream exactly like your own..for you are unique and more wondrous than you know.”
~Linda Staten

There are times when we focus so much on reaching out, helping and doing what’s best for others that we completely forget about the person who needs us most.

If you do nothing else today, remember to take extra special care of that person.

That person is you.

Love yourself from the deepest part of your being—completely, unconditionally, faithfully. Listen to your heart’s desires.  Relax your mind and body, allowing all the good of the Universe to flow effortlessly through you.

Express your creativity fearlessly with or without outside understanding.  Delight in your differences, your uniqueness—everything that makes you you.

Accept that you are special, one of a kind, and perfect as you are. Remember that you are good enough to believe in the best, experience the best, and live the best life possible.

The cruel me..

My life seem to be so out of order, just like sand on my palm, slowly falling away from me.. the more i hold- the more its going out of my hand. I am totally helpless even after knowing whats happening.. All my life i kept weeping for what i don't have and for what i never got, but when today i stand in front of mirror and try to look at myself, i just see a person who have been hurting people only for her own comforts. When she needed a support she hold the person's hand but when she felt she can handle all by herself she has left the hand and moved forward.
Yes, i know that's very bad but i am still helpless, cause that's something that even after knowing its out of my control.. As i never realize, weeping for what i didn't have.. i also lost what i have been losing..
Now when i turned back, i just realized what beautiful moments i had and everytime i got closed with those moments i kept running away, have really no clue why and for what.. Might be.. i am like a serpent.. who kill the person after getting close..
I have given people happiness.. made them feel that they are most special person in the whole world.. and one fine day.. i just leave them all by themselves.. Might be its because of the fear that i would loose the happy moments.. or might be i am not ready to take the happy moments turning into sad ones..
This post wont make much sense, cause again i have done the same thing and even this time i have no clue why and what will i get doing it.. Sometimes i feel its better not to let anyone get in part in your life.. No one would come in your life.. so obviously no one would  get closer.. and give me a fear of losing everything.. which in the end, would force me to do some stupidity and move out of the persons life..
Today i might be walking firmly and climbing the steps of success that i had planned on my head, but within me i have been left with nothing.. i miss that innocent girl who knew nothing more giving love to all.. that person who never said no to anyone and cared with all her heart..
I really have no idea whose this girl in front of the mirror, might be another worldly person.. there was a time when i was trying to know the world to fit in it.. as everytime i used to misfit because of my nature.. but today i guess i am very well fitting with the world.. They have really turned me into the cruel me..