Present or Future..??

PAST AND FUTURE..!!

This is where we be throughout our life, either stuck back to past or all the way think about the future and in both the sense sit and cry. This is not yours or my story but this is how most of the people do, we waste our whole damn life in wondering about our past and all the mistakes that we have done and for sure recollect our defeats and stay back without even trying for once. Or else we would be busy to make our future safe to an extent we actually forget our present.

Why can't we stay at present rather being in between this two opposite poles. Why cant we just move ahead of our past, no matter our past have been the night mare but this for sure it cannot be changed, right?? Then why not just move out of it. Ohh my God..!! This is what happened in my life and this had destroyed my life.. Fine i agree it had but that had happen, you had to suffer at that time but why just kill ourself every day thinking about all those things and staying back.

Instead of that keeping those thinks in some corner of our mind, if possible just excluding like some piece of paper from your book of life. And never returning back to those dark shade of life. This is indeed easy to say but it would be also easy if we actually start implementing it in our life.

Small example, one of our buddy had cheated you for some point of time and after a long time you meet him now it would be useless to sit afar remembering all those days and bring out the hatred rather start it from the scratch, this would not only save your day from spoiling but also would make him realise it. And this is very well phrased that even after you are right and you forgive the person if not today but some part of the life he would realise it. It might not be useful for the present might be you wont be able to control but atleast this hatred wont come along with you throughout your life.

And when we say about our future, future is not at all in our control and ruining our present only by wondering about our future is nothing less than knocking at a wall without door. You wont find anything expect confusion and mystery. And you might spend your whole life trying to open the door, instead of enjoying that mystery and living your present.

It is pretty harsh fact, but the day we realise and accept it, that would be the day of your victory and you would be a completely different person.